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Vocal pain gone = Definitely a good thing!

I took this screenshot of an email I got a while back from a new student after her first lesson.  This kind of message makes me really happy!  If I can save just one person from vocal pain or potential damage, that makes it all worth it… (Luckily I get to help many more than one!)

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The Value of Coaches

Quick note before this blog:
YES, I do offer vouchers for singing lessons, if you would like to buy a session for someone near & dear as a last minute/late Christmas gift!  
Email me at info@bectilley.com to get yours!  🙂

Now, about the value of coaches…

My job has various titles.  You could call me a “singing teacher”, or “voice tutor”, or, the one I like the best, “vocal coach”.

I have enlisted the help of coaches in varying areas of my life, with great results.  If you want to get good at something, if you want to get results, you need to learn from the best.

I have my own vocal coaches in Melbourne, Stephanie and Gerald of The Voice Gym, who have taught me vocal physiology & anatomy through the Estill Voice Training Model.  Of course I’ve had many other vocal teachers throughout my life as well.

I’ve taken advantage of coaching sessions from productivity/life coaches, as well as top notch relationship/authentic relating coaches, and unmasked hidden patterns holding me back in all areas of my life.  I’ve joined an award-winning local “group personal training” fitness group called Booty, run by a totally awesome personal trainer (who I plan to get a one-on-one session with when she has space available).

All of these sessions have completely skyrocketed my productivity, wellness, motivation, knowledge, and abilities in all areas of my life.

Most of the new students that come to me are complete beginners, or singers who have had little to no formal training.  They all get excited by the great results they feel and hear after just a little while of working together; and the knowledge they gain in each and every session.  Of course I love working with singers from all backgrounds and levels of experience!

But I want to reach out now to the more experienced vocalists – singers who have been singing for years, maybe with training at an institution from great teachers, maybe self-taught but with years of experience.  Singers doing gigs, recording albums, moving forward with their passion.  These singers might tend to rest on their laurels a little.  I know; I was the same.  You’ve had a few teachers, perhaps, and feel like you’ve kind of heard it all before.

How many times can you be told to “breathe to your diaphragm”, “place the sound forward”, and open your mouth more?  

One day, a friend told me about The Voice Gym teachers and highly recommended I go see them.  I am usually very careful/stingy with my money, but I happened to be going to Melbourne anyway and took the plunge.  I am SO glad I did!  I learnt more about how my voice works in that first hour session than I had learnt in almost 20 years of singing lessons, including during my Bachelor of Music.  I quickly signed up for the week-long Estill Level 1 & 2 course they were running in Sydney in January 2013.  It was no cheap feat to attend the workshop, spare the time, and fly to Sydney.  But it was SO, so worth it.  Learning this stuff changed my life as a singer and as a teacher.  I continued to study for the rest of the year and in September took and passed my Estill Ceritificate of Figure Proficiency Test.

I have taught Conservatorium graduates who were studying at the same time as me, and had great feedback about the work that we do together.  I have taught singers who have been gigging for years and seen the excitement in their faces when they realise the simplicity behind moving past that one area of their voice that has been bugging them for so long.

Getting a coach is VITAL to success and pushing past the barriers that are holding you back.

To illustrated this point, below I have pasted a recent email from Ramit Sethi, author of I Will Teach You To Be Rich and general  well known expert-on-awesomeness.  It landed in my inbox today and really made me nod my head in agreement.

Check it out below, and you know where to find me, fellow singers, if you want to increase your awesomeness in 2014 and put yourself firmly on the path to greatness!

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What do Michael Jordan and Tiger Woods have that you don’t?

No, not $100mm. They have something you could get today. But curiously, almost nobody does.

Atul Gawande, a surgeon and staff writer for the New Yorker, posed a fascinating question:

“…I watched Rafael Nadal play a tournament match on the Tennis Channel. The camera flashed to his coach, and the obvious struck me as interesting: even Rafael Nadal has a coach. Nearly every élite tennis player in the world does. Professional athletes use coaches to make sure they are as good as they can be.

But doctors don’t. I’d paid to have a kid just out of college look at my serve. So why did I find it inconceivable to pay someone to come into my operating room and coach me on my surgical technique?”

Why do the world’s top athletes, singers, and entrepreneurs have coaches…and we don’t?

STOP! Notice how we automatically get defensive when we try to answer that question:

  •  Well, they can afford it”
  • “It’s their job to be the best, so a coach makes sense”
  • “Maybe later in my career, but I’m not ready for that”

In fact, it’s exactly the OPPOSITE!

The world’s best didn’t become that good on their own. They had help, lots of it.

This is the same as people who say, “I can’t invest until I get rich.” WRONG! You get rich BY investing.

How could a coach help you? Let me give you a few unconventional examples (the word “coach” can be applied creatively):

High-end hairdresser: A highly skilled hairdresser might cost 3x (or even 20x) the normal price…but can show you why a certain look suits you better than the normal Supercuts look you’ve been getting. (Btw, see what I mean? Would you have ever thought of a high-end hairdresser as a coach?)

Personal trainer: When I used to work out on my own, I would go to the gym, do a bunch of random machines, and wonder why I wasn’t getting results. The first time I worked out with a trainer, he showed me how to improve what I’d already been doing. This has been one of the best investments I’ve ever made.

Stylist: I have a stylist friend who says, “Of course I’m better at this than the average person. It’s not that I’m a genius…it’s that I do this all day, every day.” I’ve seen her before-and-after work, and it totally transforms the person.

Business coach: I paid a business coach tens of thousands of dollars for the privilege of flying from NYC to LA, once/month for 15 months, just for 45 minutes of his time. It was another one of the best investments I’ve ever made. Not only did it pay for itself (many times over), I’ll keep the knowledge I learned forever.

Other examples: Language coach, cooking instructor, relationship/dating coaches, and many more!

The very best coaches can spot your problem areas and, since they’ve worked with tons of clients just like you, they can gently recommend strategies to help you overcome them…skyrocketing your success. I’ve seen it myself MANY times with MANY different experts I’ve worked with.

HERE’S THE POINT: You can do it on your own — and you should! But at a certain point, you’ll want a little extra help to become the very best. I remember scoffing at paying for SAT tutoring back in high school. I said, “I can just read the books.” Until I finally got one and I saw what a big difference it makes to have someone there, working with you day after day.

So, I want to challenge you: What’s ONE area where you could use a coach?

Eliminate your barriers (the #1 barrier is about cost: “I can’t afford $100/hour for the next 10 years!”) and strip it down: What if you just hired a coach for 2 sessions? Could you ask for a longer payment plan?

I changed my perspective from

“I have to do this on my own” + “people charging are just trying to scam me”

-to-

“I need help, and I’m willing to invest in myself to be the best”

And it has been absolutely pivotal in my success. If I can share just one thing with you today, it’s this: Be willing to invest in yourself, even for $20. Know that someone out there has seen your problem and can help you solve it.

That’s my challenge to you: Find ONE person you invest in, even for $20, to tackle your biggest goal for 2014.

-Ramit

How does a music teacher pick their pricing?

I would like to take this chance to thank everyone who spared some time to take my Lesson Pricing Survey!  As my regular students may have noticed, the pricing of my lessons has indeed changed (though you can still get the original price lesson if you pay in advance) and the way I offer discounts/rewards for multiple purchases in advance has changed.

As part of the Small Business Management course I am currently undertaking, of course we have been looking at pricing; different methods of pricing, offering discounts and packages, etcetera.

Pricing one’s lessons is a really difficult task!  As teachers (and other small business managers who offer their time & expertise for money), of course, we want various things:

– We want clients (students and parents of students) to want to get lessons with us.  (Therefore, not scare them away with exorbitant prices).
– We want to not undercut other people in the same kind of business (i.e. if every other teacher is charging $60, charging $40 to appear cheaper and get more students is not ethical business practice!)
– We want our clients to value their time with us; and for teachers, that means if we don’t charge enough, students simply won’t practice enough/do the work!
– We want to be able to cover our costs of running a small business… as well as hopefully make some kind of profit and enjoy life!!

I had a fellow teacher (who is also a student of mine) contact me for advice the other day.  She had contacted parents whose payments for lessons was overdue, and received a reply which included this statement:
“… $1 a minute, wow, wish I could earn that much.”

…Well then.

First of all, I suspect that this person does not understand what it is to be self employed/run a small business.  I can’t help but wonder if they have a full-time job employed by someone else?  Do they get superannuation?  Sick leave?  Paid holidays?  Insurance, OH&S costs, travel costs, are these covered by their employer?  Because we don’t get any of those things from some magical higher power.
The costs of running your own business are high, the work hours are more than 9-5 (usually more like 9am-10pm), and you don’t get any benefits other than occasionally being able to work in your pyjamas (less so if you’re a teacher).
We don’t just work while we are teaching the student for that 1 hour.  We prepare material for them.  We type up lesson notes.  We find them new music to listen to.  We email and call and text and manage our calendar and our accounts.  We might organise a yearly (or more often) concert for our students.  We pay studio rent, we buy computer and sound equipment, we get it tested & tagged, we pay public liability insurance.  I’m not saying that being a full-time employee is not difficult/hard work; I’m just offering a contrast for those who may never have thought about what it takes to run your own small business.
And for music teachers – we also continue to study our craft.  We go to professional development events, get training, and often are performers as well, writing songs, paying for instruments, playing gigs late at night.

My friend was offended and felt like she had to justify her prices.  I have had a similar response from some parents, who have said they “questioned the price as being not the norm”.

Fun Fact:  The Tasmanian Music Teachers Association’s recommended fee for a one hour, one-on-one lesson with a fully qualified teacher is $66 per hour.  (In Melbourne or Sydney, the going rate is often easily around $70 or more.)

I charge only slightly less than that, because my pricing is based around “competitor-based pricing”.  I do not want to undercut other teachers by charging less than them.  However I also don’t want to charge MORE than other teachers because I am also aware that, from a “customer-based pricing” viewpoint, Hobart being what it is, my clients will most likely not be willing to pay more than $65.

The going rate in Hobart as far as I’ve seen with other instrumental & voice teachers is between $50-60 an hour.  If someone considers that to be exorbitant, I would consider that person to not really understand the value of the service a music teacher offers, and the expenses we have in running our own business.

And as for me specifically: I charge $65 for pay-as-you-go, $60 if you buy 4 lessons in advance, and $55 if you buy 10 lessons in advance.

Why?  This is a premium price for a premium service.  If you want to learn vocal technique that will get you fast results and no trial-and-error faffing about; if you want the best in voice coaching for yourself or your child; then the price should be a no-brainer, to learn valuable technique from a knowledgable teacher which will help you achieve your goals in singing and success in your music career.

In my recent pricing survey, I had a suggestion from an anonymous parent to offer a discount rate for younger students, as they have many extracurricular activities which can get expensive.  I understand that completely as I used to be one of these kids doing ten million extracurricular things!  I do wish I could offer something like this, but honestly I cannot afford to charge less than my 10 lesson discount rate of $55, for all the reasons listed above involved in running a small business.  If this means more casual singers who are just doing singing as a bit of after-school fun can’t continue… that is sad, but something which I am willing to risk.  Lessons with me are, I hope, enjoyable, fun, and musical; however, the information I am teaching about the voice is also of high quality and quantity.  I currently have casual students from the age of 12, as well as professional vocalists and current UTAS Conservatorium of Music students.  Casual singers are always welcome as my students, of course!  But I am still teaching the same information, which is very valuable and will give your child knowledge on par with my professional and tertiary-level singers.  If your child has aspirations to be a professional vocalist, then I believe this is essential learning!  If not… I promise we will still have a great time and their confidence in themselves will soar as they feel and hear themselves improving in their sound and their control and understanding of their voice.

So what is different about my lessons?  Here’s where I toot my own horn:
– I am Bachelor-level educated. (Bachelor of Music, and Diploma of Music Performance in contemporary voice)
– I am the only person in Tasmania (and one of only 7 in Australia) who has completed the Estill Certified Figure Proficiency Test and, as far as I know in Tasmania, the only one who has studied Estill Voice Training in depth.  I continue my study of vocal physiology and attend regular training to improve my craft, and intend to undertake the Certified Master Teacher training as soon as possible.
– And, if I may say so myself, I’m a pretty darn good teacher (as I have heard in feedback from students, parents, and the level of student retention that I have).  And I CARE.  I really WANT to be a good teacher.  I love teaching.  I am not jaded and disillusioned and just doing-it-for-the-money.  I want my students to improve, I want them to be proud of themselves.  I am a friend, a mentor, a counsellor for many of my students as well as a teacher.  And the same can be said for many other music teachers I know.

I also endeavour to add as much value to my services as possible for my clients!  Information about the different perks I offer for my regular students can be found here… and I am ALWAYS open to more suggestions about how I can add value for my students.

Please consider all of the above when looking at a teacher’s cancellation policy, too.  You are not just paying us that money for that hour, but for all the other hours of work we put into being the best teacher we can be for you/your child, and running our business in the way that will best serve you.  We have rent to pay, we need to eat, and you cancelling a lesson and not being able to reschedule later in the week is not our fault.  It affects us a lot more than it affects you.  Regardless of who you are buying lessons from, whether it is from me or another vocal tutor or an instrumental tutor, keep this all in mind! 

And remember that we love you!  We value you!  We appreciate that you have chosen us to teach you or your child music, and we are indeed thankful to have a job that we don’t hate.  Let’s work together for a culture of mutual appreciation between music teachers, students and parents, and enjoy the magic that is music together!